Newlyweds money & finance: I hide money from my husband

barbie dollWhen I was little, I thought we were very poor. There was this time when Barbie dolls were the hit – hey, their legs can bend! I thought this was so cool.

But Barbies were really expensive when they first came to Bulgaria. There was this girl that we used to play dolls with, *Jane*, and she had two or three Barbies. Her father was working abroad and that’s how they could afford it.

I didn’t have a Barbie doll. They were special. I had two or three other dolls but of the regular kind. They were nothing special.

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Newlyweds with baby on the way: our money and finance

painting a wallAt the end of May 2013, we found out I was pregnant (unplanned). At the end of July – just two months later – we got married.

Here’s what our financial situation looks like.

We live in a 1-bedroom apartment rent-free.

When I first moved to my husband’s town, we lived with his parents in a 3-bedroom + kitchen apartment. It was okay, for now, but we wanted to be on our own eventually. We had made our peace with the fact that this was probably not going to happen soon. I had a vague plan idea that we could live with them for about 6 months, and re-evaluate our options then. Maybe we could rent a place or buy one with a mortgage?

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